Table Formation Engine

The Table

The structural framework for every AVAIA conversation. The Table organizes who is present, balances perspectives, and increases visibility — it never makes the decision.

The four roles

Host

The person whose life, story, question, or situation is being explored. The Host owns the conversation and every decision, and determines what is shared, what stays private, and the pace.

Guide

A trained human Guide (or, in some implementations, an AI-supported guide function) who protects the process and facilitates understanding. The Guide never owns the outcome.

Witness

The function that preserves visibility and continuity — human, system, or both. It records what became visible so each conversation begins where the last concluded.

Council

A structured set of perspectives that expands understanding. It advises, and never governs or overrides the Host.

The seats

Host

The owner of the conversation.

Guide

The facilitator who protects the process.

Witness

The keeper of continuity and visibility.

Council

Invited perspectives that broaden understanding.

Self Seats

Parts of the Host's own experience — younger self, present self, future self, wounded self, wise self, forgotten self.

Relationship Seats

Important people or relationships connected to the Host's situation.

Virtue Seats

Virtues invited into the conversation for direction, balance, strength, or clarity — a perspective, not a person.

Secondary Loss Seats

Losses that may need to be recognized because they are influencing the Host's experience.

Empty Chair

A place held for someone or something absent, unresolved, lost, unavailable, or unable to participate directly.

Only the seats that serve understanding are activated. Not every conversation requires every chair.